August is “Don’t Be A Bully” Month!!!

Talk to your kids about Bullying!!! Parents are your kids being bullied or maybe they are the bully???? August 1st Kicks off  National Month of ” Don’t Be a Bully”!! Our kids will be starting back to school and there is so much to worry about. However I do hope you take a few bitsContinue reading “August is “Don’t Be A Bully” Month!!!”

This was my life saving chance on me!!!

Warning – **TRIGGERS** – Please know that all posts on this site, including some comments, can be very triggering. You must read these posts at your own pace, face what you can when you can, but challenge yourself just a bit every day!! Yesterday’s post about my inability to forgive “Mother” for her horrible neglectContinue reading “This was my life saving chance on me!!!”

Why do they tell me to fogive?????

Warning – “TRIGGERS” – Some may not be able to read this post, but this is my reality and my thoughts. Pictures at the end may be found gruesome, but they are my arms & legs. I’ve gone my life, from age 12, carrying the scars of my, so-called, mother’s neglect. It infuriates me to thinkContinue reading “Why do they tell me to fogive?????”

Fear of Judgement and Shame……

This may be very triggering for some, but I beg you to challenge yourself just a bit to get through it. I believe you will find a great sense of accomplishment when you do!!! Yesterday morning I finally faced something that I never thought possible. Please allow me to share in hope it can giveContinue reading “Fear of Judgement and Shame……”

The Battle and the Aftermath……..

**Be advised that this entire blog site may be triggering!! Be advised that this blog site is my personal expression and not intended as any form of professional guidance or opinion. Read this blog with care, understanding and kindness** Do you suffer with days of anxiety, depression or anger, even pain that cannot be medically explained?Continue reading “The Battle and the Aftermath……..”

This cancer eating away at our society……

Ya know, I just don’t get it???~!!! Back in 2009, I was writing my way through healing; it was scary for me to reach out to others who’d been through similar history. I could write it out to myself; I could write it out to my children, but I could not yet verbalize exactly whatContinue reading “This cancer eating away at our society……”

Changing the Trained Behavior and Accpetance of Abuse

People have reached out to congratulate me on an awesome blog site. Love that, I really do. They’ve also stated what a great relief to find a blog that shares the truth and depth of being a Child Sexual Abuse Survivor. This again is wonderful!!! As a survivor who had been drastically trained to accept, liveContinue reading “Changing the Trained Behavior and Accpetance of Abuse”