“He had a balding head of strawberry blond hair and thick rimmed black glasses. When I made eye contact with him and saw the shine in his cold blue eyes, the hair on the back of my neck started to quiver. This man was evil and I could see it in his eyes. The evil ran through him like blood ran through my veins. His huge thick hands reached out for me as I walked past him, yelling for Mom. She finally came walking out of the kitchen, drying her hands on a dish towel. Mom looked at Richie and I and said, “Trecia. Richie. I would like you to meet your new dad.” I couldn’t believe what she said. Sadly I looked up at her and said, “New dad. But I have a dad. He’s a good dad and he loves me.” Mom pushed me towards the strange man as she introduced me to Walter. Walter would become the ruler of my life. He would make all decisions from that day forward concerning my contact with my father, grandparents and anyone else carrying the McKnight name. He would also control everything else in my life, including my existence. Walter became my nightmare. He would destroy everything good in my life and the day would come when no one was permitted to even say my last name. Then on a winter night of February 1968 he made his first sexual attack. The next twelve years of my life would be under his complete control. His brutal attacks would come constantly with no recourse from my mother. His huge thick hand would sneak in to forcefully cover my mouth as I lay in bed at night; trying to sleep peacefully next to my sister, but quietly crying as I endured his sadistic games.” The evil of just one child’s nightmare….
TONIGHT ON BUTTERFLY DREAMS TALK RADIO – SURVIVORS WORLD WELCOMES – MIKE DOMITRZ – DATE SAFE PROJECT
How can we teach ourselves & our teens about SAFE DATING & RELATIONSHIPS if we do not have a clue or we have some broken parts inside which keep us from being our own best self. Let’s talk together on this to help us all to Live Strong & Fly Free!!
Tonight I have the great honor of interviewing an incredible man & educator of our children, Mr. Mike Domitrz Fndr of ‘DATE SAFE PROJECT’ – Please gather your teens up for this #SURVIVORS – You know most of us have NO CLUE what a healthy relationship is, better yet how to show our kids or teach them to respect & appreciate each other as a person. How in the world can we teach what we do not know?
Tonight beginning @9pm eastern, you can listen in or chat live with the expert himself,@MikeDomitrz w/@DateSafeProject!!! Let’s teach ourselves and ask our kids to join us in the learning experience. This is an amazing opportunity so set your REMINDER through this link and perhaps invite just one friend to share it as well. Thank you all so very much for supporting #ButterflyDreamsAbuseRecovery in this journey. We are a ‘FEATURED’ radio broadcast on the blog talk radio network. 🙂 http://www.blogtalkradio.com/butterflydreamsabuserecovery/2013/10/19/butterfly-dreams-w-mike-domitrz–date-safe-project
When it comes to physical abuse of a small child Mother’s are 56% of all Child Maltreatment Reports. For more precise stats on the 2011 Child Maltreatment Reports submitted across the U.S. into the National Child Abuse and Neglect Data Systems, please see the report attached as an extra page on http://www.survivorsjustice.com
In fact more women abuse then men
worldwide using subtle means often hidden
from view it is called Parental Alienation and
has long term and often permanent effects on
the children involved!
Check out the PSA’s shared by Imagine Publicity for Domestic Violence Awareness Month!!!
Many organizations, advocates and citizens across the country are promoting national Domestic Violence Awareness Month in October raising awareness and educating the public about the nuances of violence in the home using traditional gatherings, events and speeches.
One woman who thinks outside the box has taken awareness a step further by creating FREE public service announcements to be used by any radio host, podcaster, or any means of broadcasting.
Amy Robinson has a stake in Domestic Violence Awareness Month, losing her sister to murder in 2011. She created the blog, Justice for Nique, in memory of her murdered sister as a way of releasing her own emotions and being a resource for others.
Dominique “Niqué” Chatham Leili was murdered in July, 2011. Her husband, Matthew, is the only suspect. Her body was found concealed in the woods near the entrance to her subdivision in Lawrenceville, GA. Her…
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Male Survivor Executive Director; men who have been sexually abused are finally able to find help and share their voice in the healing journey!!!
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Male survivors of sexual abuse are finally finding help, healing and recognition through organizations like MaleSurvivor and passionate advocates like Executive Director, Christopher Anderson.
Before the time when news reports came out about boys being molested by clergy and leaders of boys groups, the public had no idea of the scope of the issue. Boys and men who are survivors of sexual abuse often did not report their abuse and lived with the trauma for years. Slowly the public is becoming more educated about the myths surrounding male survivors of sexual abuse, learning that, like their female counterparts, they deserve the same treatment in all aspects of the issue of sexual…
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Excellent life after being involved with a Narcissist!!! Great read to help those who are rebuilding after the abuse and disregard which is so common in being in a relationship with a Narcissistic Personality. Great stuff , passing it forward!!!
I received this message today and want to share it with everyone. This is a message of hope for those of you still struggling with no contact and thinking you will never heal. I cried when I read it, happy tears.
Good Morning Ladies
It’s been awhile since I posted and I thought I would give an update. I keep this blog feeding to my e-mail as a reminder as to how far I have come and where I don’t want to ever be again.
Carrie, Thank you for continuing this blog and providing a safe place for people find the understanding and support needed to being healing!
My N’ is effectively as much out of my life as one can be with three kids. The divorce paperwork was signed on 9/11 even though our hearing was on the 31 of July. I came out of the courtroom with a…
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