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Hello Friends & Supporters for this very important month.

April is National Child Abuse Prevention Month & Sexual Assault Awareness Month – Hopefully we have all learned something we were not of aware of before. Hopefully we have all heightened our senses about these acts and decided its not right, no we shouldn’t ignore the truth, and yes we should be talking about the ugly acts which most commonly happen within the secrets of our family home. Do not close out this month without hugging your child, making a choice to be your own FAMILY DEFENDER, speaking out in your community. We can reverse the impact of these personally violating and life altering actions, when we discuss them and empower our children to believe in the SAFETY of every being.

Generation after generation we have taught silence, tolerance, and as a result we have numbed our personal emotions of these types of deviate behaviors; this doesn’t mean the act doesn’t viciously alter the life of a child and their perceptions of what is right or wrong. We pass forward dysfunctional behaviors and sometimes ignorance of what is actually happening right inside our homes. Our children do not have to tolerate and accept the extreme acts of physical torture, beatings, neglect of human needs, or the secret act of sexual harm. We can teach them a better way, give them courage to speak about what’s really happening and stand by their claims. Remember this important truth – Our nation had 3.7 Million claims of Child Maltreatment and our system processed  1.4 Million of these reports (in whatever decision they made) – ONLY 0.1% WERE FOUND TO BE FALSECLAIMS!!! It takes great courage to speak against those in charge of your very existence, do not turn away and leave them in a detrimental environment.

Today is the end of the month, but is it the end of the mission; NEVER!!

TELL THE TRUTH – ONE in THREE – SUFFER ABUSE!!    Please take a look at the below information and a report published on our website. It took me three months to breakdown the 270 some page report, gather the correct stats provided, and research the details from each state’s individual reporting.

TRUE indeed our children are in danger every second of every day.   I also depend on the CDC site for reliable information. However, as we well know, stats can only be taken from what is reported, the reports are few and far between because of the silenced child who doesn’t understand, cannot yet speak at all, or the fact that molestation leaves no physical signs other than irritation. I do not dispute the stats shared in the most commonly used stat reference published in 2000 Finklehor, or also a stat report from 2005 which is commonly referenced. I am not a scientist; however I do have 25 years & a certification is business management & accounting. I can add and produce a report, then research & share information I believe is critical when it comes to this specific topic.

I would like to share information I personally researched and recorded (complete with Excel Report for every individual state) concerning our nations claims of Child Maltreatment, CPS employees, Predator information, Demographics of causes and more. In this report taken & researched from National Children’s Bureau, National Child Abuse and Neglect Data Systems in 2011. I have found some of the following informaiton: BOYS ARE A CLEAR 50% OF VICTIMS at 48.6% ; Parents & Family make up 96% of all reported Child Maltreatment, (emotional, neglect, physical, sexual, medical) just think how much power our parents have over our children’s existence. This report also reveals; 1 in 9 children are harmed across the U.S. every single second.  NOTE**Congress allowed for an amendment stating ‘For every report of Sexual Abuse, or Violent Crime Victim, at least SIX others are not.**

THE NUMBER ACTUALLY IN PRESENT DAY COMMENTS, REPORTS, AND STILL FOUND DAILY VICTIMS – MEANS 1 IN 3 CHILDREN ARE BEING HARMED EVERY SECOND OF EVERY DAY. ONE in THREE, does this not alarm anyone enough to help me publish this report and get these stats or commentary added into some type of referenced information. The report and all of the related details to confirm the above can be found by visiting our website at the direct link shared below.

Let’s TELL THE TRUTH – ONE in THREE – SUFFER ABUSE!!

http://www.butterflydreamsabuserecovery.com/child_abuse_report_2011.html#.U2C1FPldUUg

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Patricia A McKnight, Owner/CEO Butterfly Dreams Abuse Recovery & Talk Radio Programming

www.butterflydreamsabuserecovery.com

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Published by @ButterflyTrish

I am a survivor of over thirty years trapped inside the silence and brutality of Family Crimes, Child Sex Trafficking, and a life lived pattern of tolerance for over 30 years in almost murderous relationships. In Feb. 2011 I chose to publish the truth about what happened in our home, the community around me, and the learned patterns of self-hatred and tolerance which became such a huge factor in my life. My life today was built through publishing 'My Justice'. I never would felt worthy of life, breathing, love & respect with first healing myself. There were many things the traits and tragedies that influenced my life seemed to control everything inside me and it was nothing but sadness and fake emotions. Only by facing the horrors I went through, the choices I made as a woman & mother, then relating to the greatest guilt I have; how the trauma behavior has affected my children's lives. It's my hope to help others get through their battles, regardless of the type of trauma because when we hurt our lives are forever changed. This graphic, violent memoir is NOT SUGGESTED FOR ANYONE UNDER 14 years of age. It discusses the permanently wounding life and the cycle of destruction that held me in expecting/tolerating ridicule and violence in my adult relationships. This truth was published to inspire others to take an in-depth look at their life and behaviors as a result of their past. Connect the dots of your rebuilding in understanding the pattern of adult choices in coping addictions, parenting, and partners; even affecting our careers and self-sustainable life. I'm so honored to have 'My Justice' used at the collegiate level for psychology classes, upcoming therapists and educators. Today my life is very blessed. I'm finally safe, finally truly loved, finally feeling the magic of what life is supposed to be like. My greatest power only began to show when I first made the choice to end the violent relationships and behaviors around my children; to give them something better, something SAFE!! In choosing to share my own story, I've also gone that serious extra step to educate myself through years of research, attending training opportunity, and collaborating with other advocate resources, abuse, sexual harm, and the experts digging deep to recreate help and healing. I've chosen to use my past as a way to inspire a greater good; hopefully somehow change the cycle of tragedy in our homes so that we empower our kids to live a more positive path. The best education we can give, is a survivor of traumatic experiences who can use what they felt then and what they wish they would have had available; those who could have and should have said something. We can change things for our life today, but best of all in healing our wounds, we give communities a supportive working strategy in assisting the people in our lives. One step at a time, one caring soul at a time, we can give them a path to changing our human society as a whole. This is a tell all, which was written in the midst of my third nervous breakdown as I struggled to put all my distorted pieces back together, help my children understand how the violence I tolerated against me invaded their emotional well-being. My children have always been my world, but my behaviors, lack of healthy parenting and life skills, and an inability to remain stable has caused another generation of suffering for my grandchildren. This is a very difficult thing to watch and the continued tragedies that seem to keep affecting the choices in my family. Writing this book was only the beginning of trying to release all that has haunted me for so many years. I have finally removed his thick, cruel, coal stained hand which trapped me in fear for decades. Those hands and his evil, her housemaid and caregiver; they created a slave and that slave submitted to horrific and brutal attacks but always felt it was her burden to bare. I lived with that hand holding me down to terrorize and steal away my voice, holding me captive in the dysfunction of the aftermath and casting a shadow of darkness on everything good in my life. Living in the true spirit of freedom, I have now become a strong advocate against the life cycle of human destruction. We cannot live stuck in the tragedy of hardships and pain. Life is meant to be lived, to be enjoyed, to see what you can do and what you can achieve, to find out what is important to you. We all become adults. We all have a burden to bare. Stand up and keep moving, keep living, keep dreaming. You have two choices in recreating and rebuilding yourself. Do you stay stuck in the dark shadows of your past? Do you dig deep and find that spirit that kept you alive so that you could become the proud, strong, capable, resilient, kind human being ? Which do you choose and how will that choice affect your children and theirs? We can be supportive, provide resources and suggestions for help so that families suffering with addiction or past trauma themselves can find a recovery balance to rebuild their family in a more positive life pattern. We will recover, we will rebuild, we will conquer the pains of yesterday to live in the true sense of life, freedom and safety today. Patricia 'Trish' McKnight Author: 'My Justice' Fndr/CEO: Butterfly Dreams Alliance, NFP Mentor/Advocate/Speaker/Survivor

One thought on “butterflydreamsabuserecovery.com/childabusereport

  1. Although these statistics are hard to embrace, the facts are the facts. Thank You Trish for being willing to expose the ugly in these truths.

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