Who I am today

    “I’m not feeling sorry for myself, so please don’t pity me, it really just makes the situation worse. What I need is to know that something I say or do or write will help you support someone whose been harmed, as well as prevent or intervene when something happens in your circle today.”Continue reading “Who I am today”

Childhood traumatic experiences (CTEs)

Originally posted on Parental Alienation:
Self-reported information on CTEs was collected by the question: “Have you over a long period experienced any of the following? (as a child),” followed by three types of traumatic experiences: (i) Being tormented, or threatened with violence; (ii) Being beaten, kicked, or the victim of other types of violence, and;…

Triggers; what are they and how do we work through them?

Written back in 2013, this is still one of the most linked to blogs I’ve ever written. Today there were five pingbacks waiting to be approved. This blog has been referenced by leading therapists and advocates, as well as survivors and family resources. In just a few moments of reading you will find an understandingContinue reading “Triggers; what are they and how do we work through them?”

Illinois Legislature Passes Partial Budget

Originally posted on Mt. Vernon Network News:
SPRINGFIELD, IL (AP) – ? Illinois lawmakers averted a shutdown of schools and avoided further uncertainty in government operations with a partial budget deal that funds education for a year and other areas for six months. The Illinois Legislature passed a package of bills Thursday to complete an…

‘My Justice’ the survivor story from hell that will change your perception of family harm

   https://youtu.be/0Rpt_oHU5NM Patricia A. McKnight ~~ ‘My Justice’ By John Miller on January 4, 2014 ~~ “Without any doubt, “My Justice” by Patricia A McKnight is one of the most horrifying, chilling and shocking accounts of child abuse, that I have ever read.” By Stormy on March 26, 2016 ~~ “Difficult to read though itContinue reading “‘My Justice’ the survivor story from hell that will change your perception of family harm”

What it really takes to create a change in the cycle of Family Harm & Trauma

     Why do survivors of Child Sexual Assault, Child Trafficking, and extreme cruelty continue to tell their stories? Because our human society is still dismissing the depth of trauma and the life affecting changes from being a sexualized and/or brutalized, (even severely neglected) child. We hear about African Child Brides and are horrified, as weContinue reading “What it really takes to create a change in the cycle of Family Harm & Trauma”

Head Trauma; Disability from Violence

Many times in a person’s life they may come across another person who is violent to the extreme. Sadly they end up with ongoing physical, maybe neurological, difficulties with their health from that moment in time. Reading this might cause some triggering, ‘bad emotional response; anger, anxiety, sadness, pain). However I do feel that whatContinue reading “Head Trauma; Disability from Violence”

Begin the Human Recovery….

Attention Please!! Re: CSA Survivors The history of Family Offenders, Grievous Permanent Injury & Sex Crimes Against Children, Understanding Family & Trauma Dynamics Public Plea for our Media Journalists & Advocacy Organizations; You hold the answer to everything!!! In your journalistic program you share knowledge with the world, not just in our local area. ItContinue reading “Begin the Human Recovery….”

To change our world we have to heal our past……

  Have you noticed the multitude of Adult Survivors of Child Sex Crimes who are sharing their collective voices across the United States? Actually if you really notice it’s happening in every country around the world; filling the internet and becoming part of the norm? I must say myself and every other adult survivor neverContinue reading “To change our world we have to heal our past……”